The holiday season is our favorite time of the year. Not only because its a sentimental feel good season but because we get to spend a significant chunk of time with our family and friends back in Michigan. As we spend time reflecting on this years holiday season, we realized that sharing was a constant theme throughout the couple of weeks we were home. We shared...
...in the snow removal. From the moment we arrived in Hamilton, it didn't stop snowing for three days leaving our cars unable to navigate or even locate the streets of artic Overisel. Considering the Grotenhuis household still lacks the internet and cable, (but did just get indoor plumbing the previous summer) Chad was trying to find any way possible for him to reconnect with the outside world. So, clad in snowmobile suits from the 1970's (literally!), winter parkas, hats, gloves, scarves, more hats, gloves, scarves, face masks, & Napoleon Dynamite boots we beat the Allegan County Road Commission to 46th Avenue with our shovels & tractor. Kathi's Dad, Larry, reluctantly taught us how to use his John Deere to remove snow from the driveway. (We say reluctantly because he loves to use his tractor - but he should have been reluctant because of our poor driving & farming skills.) While Chad, Kathi, & Larry worked hard shoveling & plowing snow, Kathi's Mom, Bev, disappeared. We thought she went inside for hot chocolate but Kathi found her later neck deep in a snow bank. She yelled "Just go on without me", but Kathi couldn't leave her and joined in the fun instead.
...time with family. From meeting our 9 day old niece, Brooke, for the very first time to spending time with our almost 90 year old grandparents and all the ages in between, we loved every minute of it. We did not do a good job of sharing Brooke because it was so peaceful to have her asleep in our arms (and up all night crying in her parents arms). We did, however, do a good job of sharing the Swedish holiday drink glogg that Chad's grandpa brought. (We had to share because one sip of the raisin, prune, whiskey, & wine concoction could make you vomit and slur your words for days.) Of the six family Christmas parties we had, we had to win at Bingo for presents at two of them, we had to sing Christmas carols for presents at one of them, had to open presents between potty training lessons, and played farkel after presents with the others.
...time with friends. We feel truly blessed to have such good friends in both Pennsylvania and Michigan, and the holiday season allowed us to spend time with many of them. From sharing white elephant gifts in Zion, PA to sharing cheesecake while watching Penn State volleyball in Zeeland, MI to rocking out to Rockband in Fennville, MI (Kathi tried to "rock out" out on the drums but was not quite as successful as the 3 year old that went after her) to dressing up in bad sweaters and playing euchre as the ball dropped on New Years Eve in Grandville, MI we realized how blessed we are to have such great friends.
...our little goober. We were flattered by all the interest people took in our pregnancy (or at least pretended to show interest). Kathi started struggling to get into her normal pants. We were unsure whether this was the result of the baby....or just a lot of holiday eating. Chad, on the other hand, continues to try to put on sympathy weight.
...lessons on sharing. Our cute little nephew Grant becomes a cute little monster when he plays with Thomas the Tank Engine. One particular night he would not share with anybody. Uncle Chad tried using logic to help him ("Grant its impossible for you to know that Thomas doesn't want me to play with him because he's an inanimate object. Don't you know anything about epistomology?") Kathi tried using negative reinforcement ("Grant, if you won't share I won't play with you anymore.") You can guess which worked better. Its a good thing Grant has smart parents who know how to raise a child because he seemed to catch on to sharing quickly.
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Thank you for the updates! I enjoyed reading about your highlights of last few weeks, BUT there were definitely NOT ENOUGH preggo pictures. I was anxiously anticipating some belly shots, and that one just looks like a baggy shirt after a big meal. I'll keep waiting. :)
Oh how we've missed your updates! Thanks for making us laugh! Wish we could say that the lessons Grant learned from you in sharing have made a lasting impact, however, I'd be lying! We're still working on that department (and the potty training, too, but we've all but given up on that for the time being - a new baby kind of throws a wrench in things!). Miss you and can't wait to see you again in February!
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